For me, hate is such an obvious a weakness. I mean, I can almost see how the cancer of hate eats away at the souls of the haters. That in itself seems to create more compassion, more often than not. But selfishnes, the real deep, oblivious kind where people can't understand that other people may see things differently. This narcissistic way of relating to the world, well now that's a challenge for me. I mean, I am never quite sure of how much to let roll off my back--it is them, I know--and at what point, I should say enough!
